The Teen Moms were not feeling the Valentine’s Day love on last night’s finale.

This season was brutal on the girls’ relationships, in fact all of them broke up with their significant others by the end of the last episode. So where do they stand after all the drama? These quotes from last night’s show sum it up:

“How long is it going to take before I can see him and not get sad?” – Chelsea, talking about her on-and-off ex Adam. We hope it’s really, really soon Chelsea. You deserve to be treated well!

“This is a marriage that’s led to a divorce” -Leah, trying to process that her marriage to the father of her two girls is truly over. Watching Corey take off his ring was heart breaking.

“Why do I put myself in these positions” - Kailyn, taking the words right out of our mouths. She’s working and going to school, doing a lot of things right. But she and Joe continue to complicate their co-parenting relationship and each other’s lives.

“Why don’t you let me focus on myself while I’m here?” – Jenelle, talking to ex-boyfriend Kiefer from rehab. We are with you Jenelle, it’s time for you to deal with your stress and addiction issues without all the distractions!

On the MTV after show, teen moms in the audience weighed in on the season and most of them were very sympathetic about all the emotional baggage that comes with parenthood.

“Seeing the four of you put your kids first despite how hard it is for you, it’s something really important to remember,” one mother said. “You did what you thought is right.”

We wish all the Teen Moms out there health and happiness, and thanks to everyone for watching this season. Remember that you CAN take control of your own health and future. Did you know that 3 in 10 teen girls in the US will get pregnant at least once before age 20? Get in the know and learn what works and what doesn’t when it comes to preventing pregnancy.

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Jenelle, Jenelle, Jenelle. Of all the Teen Moms she has had the most emotional and chaotic season. And just like her mother says on pretty much every episode, we really worry for her health and happiness.

Last night she finally started to recognize some of her addiction problems and her stress issues and it was a huge relief to see her start to take control. She cut off her relationship with Keifer, acknowledging he was putting her at more legal risk and jeopardizing her future with her son. She also agreed to go to rehab for addiction and stress, a HUGE step for her and her family.

That can’t have been an easy decision, but on the after show Jenelle admitted
that getting probation made her “stop and realize” what was happening in her life and gave her more perspective. She also said she’s learned a lot from her decision to go into counseling and rehab– she even pledged to talk about it openly with her son someday when he is older.

“It’s OK if you go get help, no matter how perfect your life is, it’s OK to have a therapist,” she said.  “You shouldn’t bottle it all up.”

Jenelle has a long road ahead of her, but she seems committed to working things out for the benefit of Jace.

Take control of your own health and future. Did you know that 3 in 10 teen girls in the US will get pregnant at least once before age 20? It doesn’t have to be this way. Get in the know and learn what works and what doesn’t when it comes to preventing pregnancy.

If you are having sex, make a plan for protecting yourself against unintended pregnancy and STDs. Remember that condoms protect you against both pregnancy AND STDs. They are the only method that does both. And if you’re struggling with stress or depression, seek help and visit the Half of Us campaign.

Leah and Corey are the only Teen Mom 2 parents who are still a couple this season…though if you read any gossip mags you probably already know how that ends. But it’s still sad to watch them grow apart and on last night’s episode it was clear there are major differences in how they view the future.

Leah pushes ahead searching for a new place to live, but Corey is definitely not on board with the plan.
“Maybe I have some bad communication skills…but it takes both of us, if he’s not going to work on it too then we’re not going to get through it,” she confides in her friend after a fight.

Teen Mom couples have struggled time and time again to care for their kids and still manage to stay happily in a relationship with each other. The truth is that having a baby makes everything more complicated, and building a family while still figuring life out is just plain hard.

Especially with twins, and with ongoing medical issues with one of the girls, Leah and Corey have been through a lot. By the end of this episode it’s clear they may not be able to hold everything together. Corey even tells Leah during a fight that he thinks they rushed their marriage. Leah also admits on the aftershow that she was very scared before their wedding and that she may have felt marriage was the best thing because she didn’t have a relationship with her own father.

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