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 Eve Ensler on Love, Relationships + Ending Violence Against Women 

Reported by MTV Act.

Photo: (MTV)

Photo: (MTV)

If you’re a fan of girl power and positivity, chances are Eve Ensler’s work is on your digital bookshelf. The feminist powerhouse is responsible for getting the likes of Jennifer Lawrence and Anne Hathaway to rise up and protest violence against women for 1 Billion Rising, and for theater kids around the world to belt out The Vagina Monologues.

We had a chance to chat with Eve Ensler as part of MTV’s Pioneer Series. Eve stopped by to talk about her new book, In the Body of the World, an intimate memoir about her life and her recently won battle with uterine cancer.

The book is the most personal work she’s ever written, and details her journey to reclaim and get back in touch with her body. She reflected on her time spent in the Congo, how inspired she was by the women there (who have survived years of civil war and violence) and her own story of survival while undergoing cancer treatment. After kicking cancer’s butt, she re-emerged with a new appreciation for life and a wisdom for how the earth and body are connected. She urged people to appreciate the love in their lives beyond their significant others. Friends and family can give you the “big love” that sweeps you off your feet.

When asked what her one wish for the world is, not surprisingly she said to end violence against women. Having visited almost 70 countries, Eve said that the sad thing everyone had in common was the oppression of women. Eve wants women around the world to be empowered to walk, talk and wear whatever they choose, and not be harassed. She stressed that this is NOT a just women’s issue though. It’s up to men to rise up and come forward in support of the women in their lives. Men have as much, or more, of a role to play in ending violence against women.

Of course, at the heart of all of this is building healthy relationships — with yourself and others. To Eve, sex education should go beyond putting the condom on a banana and delve into how we want to be touched and treated.  We need to make sure men and women clearly understand what rape is, and know that no ALWAYS means no.   And beyond that, we should talk more about the positives of sex — creating a better understanding of the meaning of consensual sex, what feels good and the importance of making sure that both people are having a positive experience.

Be sure to check out Eve’s new book, In the Body of the World. For more info on sexual health head over to IYSL.

 Today Is National Day to Prevent Teen Pregnancy 

Reported by MTV Act.

Photo: (StayTeen.org)

Photo: (StayTeen.org)

The rate of teen pregnancy has been dropping in the last few decades, but three out of ten teenage girls will still become pregnant before reaching the age of twenty. In hopes of bringing the numbers down more, the National Day to Prevent Teen Pregnancy got started.

+ Get Quizzed

Today is May 1 and many people are excited ’bout that. It’s also a milestone day as National Day to Prevent Teen Pregnancy turns 12 so Stay Teen has created a fancy, new online quiz. You can actually plug in your name, the name of your crush, and the name of your BFF, and the quiz comes up with little storylines. As you find yourself in different situations (from Halloween parties to prom night), the quiz asks how you’ll respond.

+ Protect Yo Self

To step away from online quizzes and get into IRL stuff, it’s important to be super knowledgeable about protection. If you’re sexually active now, it’s so VITAL you use protection every time. 90% of teens who don’t use protection are pregnant within a year. MTV’s It’s Your [Sex] Life can help you with the deets on protection options and how well each kind works. And if you’re not sexually active, all good, because it’s good to educate yourself on birth control and all that stuff before you jump in bed with your partner. That way you’ll be better prepared and know how to keep yourself protected.

In 2012, more than 700,000 people took part in the National Day to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, and hopefully this year will be even bigger and better. Becoming a teen parent is 100% avoidable. Learning about birth control can ensure you only become a parent as an adult, and only if and when you want to. So enjoy this glorious, new month and be safe while you do it!

 Wear Your Fave Pair of Jeans + Take a Stand Against Rape on Denim Day 

Reported by MTV Act.

Photo: (facebook.com/denimdayinlaandusa)

Photo: (facebook.com/denimdayinlaandusa)

It’s time to break out your favorite pair of jeans, because today (April 24) is Denim Day. Founded in 1999 by the non-profit Peace Over Violence, Denim Day is a rape prevention and education campaign. The non-profit was inspired by an Italian court case in the 1990s where a victim of sexual assault was wearing jeans.

We’ve posted about the importance of not joking about rape and more during Sexual Assault Awareness Month, so you know we’re wearing our favorite jeans today. If you want to get involved in the rape prevention/education campaign, we’ve got your covered. Here are four ways you can take a stand against rape on Denim Day.

+ Rock Your Denim

Got your favorite pair of jeans? Pulled that jean jacket out of the back of your closet? Whatever you’re wearing, make sure you tell people why you’re rocking the denim — bonus points if you tie in this year’s slogan: “There is No Excuse and Never an Invitation to Rape.” For friends and strangers who might want more information, send them to RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) to get the facts.

+ Take the Pledge

Head over to the Denim Day site and pledge to wear your favorite denim today. You can also download the tool kit if you want to raise awareness in your neighborhood or at your school. It’s never too late to print out some of these educational posters and pass them out!

+ Support Your Local Rape Crisis Center

You can find your local rape crisis center. Call up your local center to see if you can volunteer and make a difference in the lives of survivors in your area. Encourage your friends to do the same!

+ Raise Your Voice

If you’re stuck with a dress code and can’t wear jeans, make sure you post to Facebook or Twitter to show your support of the campaign. Use the hashtag #DenimDay so others can join in on the conversation about rape prevention and education.

If you or someone you know need someone to talk to, the National Sexual Assault Hotline is free, confidential, and available 24/7 at 1.800.656.HOPE. If you don’t feel comfortable speaking to someone over the phone, you can log on to the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline.

 It’s Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month: How To Spot + Stop Relationship Abuse 

Reported by MTV Act.

Photo: (Getty)

Do you know that one in three young people experience some sort of relationship abuse? February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, and all month, organizations like Break The Cycle and Love is Respect want your help spreading love and awareness. Here are a few basic steps you can take to learn more and put a stop to relationship abuse.

+ Get Educated

Learn what is relationship abuse and how to spot and stop it. Relationship abuse comes in many forms — physical, emotional, sexual, and digital. Everything from extreme possessiveness, to checking someone’s email without permission, to physically harming a significant other is considered abuse.

+ Speak Up

Share your knowledge of dating abuse with friends and loved ones, and if you witness or experience dating abuse, say something! Whether it’s a stranger or a friend, a victim or an abuser, learn how to step in the right way when you notice something wrong.

+ Wear Orange

You can help fight relationship abuse with a simple fashion choice! Go all out and wear orange on February 11th, and when people ask you why you stole Snooki’s look, let them know you’re promoting healthy relationships. Pull your look together with orange socks, orange nails, or a really bad spray tan…and don’t forget to tweet pics of your cute ‘fit to @loveisrespect!

+ Get Help

If you or someone you know is either being abused or abusing someone, get help. There are too many Ryan Goslings in the world to waste your time on others — with or without fame and fortune. Contact Love is Respect at any hour for anonymous advice and helpful resources – chat with a peer advocate online, call (866) 331-9474 or text “loveis” to 77054.

 New Maps Show HIV Rates Nationwide: How Does Your Town Fare? 

Reported by MTV Act.

Photo: (AIDSVu)

Today is National HIV Testing Day, which means we encourage you to get yourself tested. I know it’s a scary thought, but it is possible to have HIV — and be spreading it — and not realize any of this because you feel fine. According to the CDC, one in five people in the US who are HIV positive don’t even know it! In order to help curb the spread of HIV/AIDS, AIDSVu is setting up new interactive maps to show the prevalence of HIV in America.

Visuals can be a great way to learn and AIDSVu is offering you maps that show how many people have HIV — from an overall look at the country to close-ups on local communities. You can see which parts of the US have a bigger concentration of HIV (like the South, for example) but also see how your county looks, or maybe even your city.

Why are some places redder (meaning more HIV cases) than others? That’s another thing AIDSVu wants to talk about. The places with more HIV tend to have more poverty, which can mean lack of health insurance and lack of education. If you haven’t been taught about how to protect yourself from HIV, or if you don’t have good access to condoms (or you can’t afford them because it’s that or eating dinner tonight), then we start having major problems.

AIDSVu also shows ratios of who has HIV, like men versus women or by ethnic group. Again, things are not created equal here, and it often keeps going back to lack of education and lack of resources. The numbers are scary, but the good news is you can prevent the spread of HIV. That’s why testing is so key. If you get tested, not only will you know your status, you can seek treatment, because it’s def. possible to live a long and healthy life with HIV.

 Get Yourself Tested on National HIV Testing Day 

Reported by MTV Act.

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One in five people living with HIV in the U.S. don’t even know it. Let me repeat that: ONE in FIVE! That because you can’t always tell if you have an STD, including HIV, by symptoms. The only way to know for sure is to Get Yourself Tested– GYT.

Today marks National HIV Testing Day, a day that keeps us in check with just how important it is to get tested. So important, because folks of every single race, economic background, and age demographic are at risk for HIV. That’s why Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends HIV testing for every American between the ages of 13 and 64.

The whole idea of getting tested can seem scary or irrelevant to you. But the truth is, these HIV tests are fast, pretty painless, and 100% worth it — no matter who you are.

So rise p and be strong. Part of knowing yourself is knowing your status. Now you know you should get tested, but what are the tests actually like? We’ve got some answers.

Do I have to go to a doctor to get tested?

Nope! You can get tested at your community health clinic, local/state health department or hospital. In some states, you can even get tested at the nearby Walgreens for free. Find out the closest HIV testing center near you to get goin’ ASAP.

How much does an HIV test cost?

Costs vary, but many community clinics offer tests for free. If you have health insurance, the tests may be covered.

What does it involve?

HIV tests require a blood sample, a urine sample or an oral swab sample from inside your mouth. Some tests take a few days to hear results, but rapid HIV tests can give you an answer in about 20 minutes.

How does the test work?

When someone’s infected with HIV, their body reacts by producing antibodies, proteins which help fight off the disease. Most HIV tests are antibody tests, which means they detect the presence of these antibodies.

What are rapid HIV tests?

Exactly what they sound like: in as little as 20 minutes, you find out your status. A rapid test can either be a quick cotton swab oral test, finger jab test or blood sample. Easy peasy!

What happens if the test comes back positive?

Take a deep breath — all positive HIV tests must be followed up by another test to make sure the result is correct. If you do ultimately learn you have HIV it’s important to talk to a health care provider right away, even if you don’t feel any symptoms. With the treatments available today many HIV-positive people live long and healthy lives, but getting the right care and talking to your doctor is key.

So, if I think I may have been exposed to HIV, but then get tested and it comes back negative, I’m in the clear?

Not necessarily. It can take as long as three to six months for your body to develop enough antibodies to show up on a test. These months, known as the “window period”, means you can test negative for HIV but ACTUALLY be infected with HIV and transmit it to others. So, let’s say you think you may have been exposed a week ago, you get tested, and the results come back negative. You’re not off the hook, and should def get re-tested in another 3 months or so. You should also make sure to protect yourself and others by abstaining from sex or using a condom every single time.

If I get my blood drawn at the doctor for my physical, does that automatically mean I’m being tested for HIV?

Nope. You have to specifically ask to be tested for HIV.

Will other people find out I got tested?

Not if you don’t want them to! Your results are hundo confidential. You can also choose to get tested anonymously at many testing centers.

If you want to learn more about HIV and HIV testing, check out MTV: Get Yourself Tested and learn more about other STDs while you’re there!

 [INTERVIEW] Maci Bookout On Teen Pregnancy: ‘Buy Condoms Today or Buy Diapers Tomorrow’ 

Reported by MTV Act.

Photo: (Teen.com)

Maci Bookout never thought she’d be a teen mom, and even after she got pregnant, she never thought she’d have to be a single parent. Now she’s taking care of her son Bentley, splitting custody with his father Ryan, all while trying to get her degree. If she had one message to share with teens today, which is the National Day to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, it’s that being a teen mom takes a ton of sacrifice, and there is nothing glamorous about it. Read our exclusive interview with Maci in which she talks about the most common misconception about her life as a “Teen Mom,” her summer plans and her biggest struggles with Ryan.

ACT: What’s been the most challenging part of being a teen parent that you didn’t expect?

MACI: In the beginning, my biggest struggle was losing my teen years. I didn’t get to do everything that my friends who didn’t have children got to do, like going to prom and graduating from my regular high school and getting to go out and going away to college.

But after Ryan and I split up, my biggest struggle has definitely been to share my time with Bentley with his dad. I feel kind of selfish because I am grateful that his dad is still around and that he actually has a father figure in his life, but at the same time I never would have pictured motherhood with my first child being only half the time, because I have to give him away every other weekend and let him go on vacations with his dad. Holidays are always a rollercoaster. Things like that are definitely the biggest struggle for me and it’s really emotionally challenging to deal with. I never would have thought this is how my life would be when I got pregnant.

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 Sweet Tweet: JWOWW’s Condom Oops 

Reported by MTV Act.

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JWOWW is late. A month late. Uh-oh. Does this mean the Jersey Girl will be racing Snooki to the delivery room? Au contraire

Last night, Miss Jenni Farley took to her Twitter to celebrate a holiday close to her mind, body and soul:

Only thing is, National Condom Day was February 14, not March 14. Not to worry – for a sexpert like Jenni, every day is National Condom Day! Woohoooo!

For clarity’s sake, we aren’t exactly encouraging you to go out and smush with abandon, but should you find yourself engaging in any condom-worthy activity, be armed with all the information that’ll make the latex talk sexier. Like, you know, how sexy it feels to not field unplanned pregnancies and unexpected STDs. We’re talking sexy sex, as JWOWW puts it.

So Happy National Condom Day every day to you and yours! If you’re gonna smush, smush safely. Over and out.

 

 GYT this World AIDS Day 

December 1 is World AIDS Day, and what better way to get involved than by taking action right here at home?   It’s as easy as going to GYT: Get Yourself Tested for HIV.   Today in America, there are over 1 million people in the United States living with HIV.   But 1 in 5 Americans who is living with HIV today doesn’t even know it.   The only way to know your status is to GYT.   And today, testing is faster and easier than ever before.   With rapid oral HIV testing, all it takes is an oral swab and 20 minutes to get your results back—no needles, no blood, no pain, no excuses.   PLUS free and low cost testing is available– just make sure you ask.   It’s simple, fast, easy and confidential.   To find a testing center near you, enter your zip code in the STD testing center locator.   For more information about HIV/AIDS, check out GYT’s HIV/AIDS 101.  Know yourself.  Know your (HIV) status.  GYT.

 

 Get Yourself Tested Today 

Reported by MTV Act.

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One in 2 young people will contract an STD before they’re 25. Marinate on that…50 percent. Of course, not all of these contractions will be HIV/AIDS–but the risk is still present. Getting yourself tested is the only way to ensure you and your partner remain free from infection. And today (June 27), National HIV Testing Day, is a perfect time to do so.

Act has covered just about every famous person’s fight against HIV/AIDS this year–from Lady Gaga to Hillary Clinton. We’ve introduced you to fancy condom lines and clever smartphone apps, we’ve profiled a team of trendsetters who live the “GYT” lifestyle and even promoted a safe sex campaign tool kit.

We’ve done all this so you would do one thing: stay safe. So naturally today, National HIV Testing Day, we want all of our readers to get tested if you’re sexually active, or educate yourself on protection if you’re considering having sex. Believe it or not, HIV tests are quick, painless and often free. You can find your nearest testing center on GYTnow.org.

 It’s National HIV Testing Day: Time to GYT! 

GYT has been getting the word out all month to lead up to today, June 27th, National HIV Testing Day.   Did you know one in five Americans living with HIV doesn’t even know it?   Know yourself and know your status.   Knowing is greater than doubt, and many testing centers are offering free or low-cost testing, so what are you waiting for?   GYT today.   Find the testing center nearest you by entering your zip code here or by texting your zip code to GYTNOW (498669).   Not sure what to expect when you go to get tested?   GYT can help.   Check out GYT’s HIV 101 here.     Rise up and Be Greater Than AIDS.   Get the facts and Get Yourself Tested.

 

 GYT on Tour 

All month, GYT and Greater Than AIDS are joining forces to get the word out about HIV testing with  Be Greater Than AIDS: Get Yourself Tested Month.   As part of the outreach efforts to encourage  HIV testing among young people, GYT is going on tour with Emmis Communications in Chicago, New York, and Los Angeles.

At Q101’s Jamboree concert in Chicago and Hot 97’s Summer Jam in New York, concert goers stopped by the GYT booth for free giveaways, like GYT condoms with information about where to get tested, upgraded tickets for taking the GYT mobile quiz, t-shirts designed by Team GYT member Jeff Staples, and a custom bike designed by Team GYT member Ube Urban.   Check out more photos here.

And keep an eye out for GYT at Power 106’s Powerhouse concert in LA on June 25th!

Rise up, stand tall and know your HIV status.  GYT today!