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 [VIDEO] 16 and Pregnant’s Alex Shares Advice On Having The Sex Talk With Your Boo 

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We’ve been keeping up with the girls of ’16 and Pregnant‘ all season long. Last night’s episode shared Alex’s struggle with being pregnant at 16 and having an unreliable boyfriend who would show up to doctor’s appointments under the influence of who-knows-what. Looking back, there’s one thing she’d so differently: make sure to have open communication with your partner even before you have sex.

“If you’re uncomfortable taking about sex with the person, that probably means you’re not comfortable enough to have sex with that person,” she shares in the clip below. “Your best goal would be to wait.” After finding out she was pregnant, she struggled to be on the same page as her boyfriend — and that’s when he wasn’t M.I.A. Watch what more Alex has to say about communicating with your partner below!

+ WATCH: Alex reflects on being ’16 and Pregnant.’

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 Let’s Talk About S-E-X On Savage U, Premiering Tonight on MTV! 

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For over 20 years, sex advice columnist Dan Savage has been helping young lovers get free under the covers. He’s shared “Savage Love” suggestions in print, online, through podcasts and on Q&A tours. He wrote a book, “The Kid,” about his experience adopting a son with husband (by Canadian law) Terry Miller. A group of  NY actors/fans went ahead and turned that story into a stage musical last year. In 2010, Savage and Miller started the hugely popular It Gets Better Project. Yes, Dan Savage is an in-demand man. Fortunately, however, he’s not too busy to bring candid s-e-x talk to MTV … starting now. Check out the trailer below.

Premiering tonight at 11pm ET/PT (10pm CT) on MTV, “Savage U” will open the conversation to a collegiate crowd. The show will be frank, hilarious, graphic, fearless — and, above all, sensitive to the concerns young people face gettin’ freaky in 2012. From STDs to GGG (“good, giving and game,” a classic Savage-ism), pop culture’s favorite sexpert gives it to us real. No shaming or judging. No fear-of-telling-it-like-it-is. No let’s-make-sex-scary-so-young-people-don’t-want-to-talk-about-it. None of those old tricks. This is straight up Savage sex ed. Get ready to hear your secret questions answered on “Savage U.”

In the video below, Dan talks to MTV Act about his new show. Are you going to tune in tonight?

 [Interview] ‘Teen Mom 2′ Cast: ‘No Matter How Famous, Having A Child Is Hard’ 

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Take their word for it: Teen motherhood is far from glamorous. As young mama Jenelle puts it, “No matter how famous, or how much money you have, or how much you’re on TV, having a child is going to be hard.” The cast of Teen Mom 2  has weathered tabloid drama, boyfriend drama, legal drama and TV-ready real life drama, but from the sounds of it, all of that is way diff to the challenges of parenting, cameras or not. It’s no easy task — and if the new stats on teen pregnancy rates are any indication, young people are getting the message loud and clear.

As  USA Today  reports, teen birth rates fell for the third year in a row in 2010. In fact, the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy points out new stats  from the CDC  confirming that teen births are at the lowest rate ever reported. Could pop culture share credit with advocacy and education orgs? After all, no pamphlet can bring the real picture to life the way the Teen Mom episodes can, right?

National Campaign CEO Sarah Brown says, “The magic formula of less sex  and  more contraception is responsible for this great good news.   Teens are being more careful for a number of reasons, including the recession, more media attention to this issue — including the ‘16 and Pregnant/Teen Mom effect‘ — and more attention to and investment in evidence-based programs.  But at the end of the day, the thanks and admiration go to teens themselves.”

What magic formula are you using? Check out birth control options courtesy of It’s Your Sex Life  and postpone the baby drama ’til you’re good and ready to bid glamour bye-bye.

 INTERVIEW: GYT Campus Ambassador Anthony 

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GYT Campus Ambassador Anthony gets real about living GYT.  Check out why knowing yourself and knowing your status is so important to Anthony.

My name is Anthony. I am an International Relations major and a Dance minor. During my free time I love to dance- a lot. My specialty is in Latin music (salsa, merengue, bachata, cumbia, etc.) but I love dancing all types of music.   I also write spoken word poetry as a way to balance out my emotional health. When I’m not in class or doing one of the above, I remain very involved in the New London community by working with children in the middle school and high school level as a tutor/counselor.

GYT: What’s the most played song on your ipod?

On the Floor by Jennifer Lopez. It’s been played well over 2,200 times.

GYT: What’s your all time favorite MTV show?

My favorite MTV show is True Life. The topics are either unusual or ridiculous, but they’re always very interesting. Does anyone remember Daria? I also love that show too.

GYT: What inspired you to be a GYT ambassador?

R.I.P. Uncle Louis. He passed away from AIDS a few years ago, but the impact he has had on me is tremendous. I am a huge advocate for getting everyone tested because of the huge risks that currently exist. Being able to educate at least one person about safer sex practices is all the motivation I need to continue my advocacy for GYT because if my uncle would’ve known about these practices I know he would still be alive.

 

 INTERVIEW: GYT Ambassador Martina 

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GYT talked with Campus Ambassador Martina to find out her inspiration for getting involved in GYT.  Feeling inspired yourself?  Then put your passion into action here by applying to become a GYT Ambassador!

Hey! My name is Martina, and I’m a public health major at UT Austin. I’ve been involved in our campus newspaper as a designer and can’t seem to get away from that basement. In my spare time, I love baking new recipes (cookies are my favorite) with some good music playing. I’ve taken up the nearly impossible task of trying to eat at every restaurant with 4 or more stars on Yelp. Most of the time I’m perfectly content watching movies, laughing with my friends and spending time with my family.

What’s the most played song on your ipod?

It’s probably an Adele song. I’m addicted to her album. Her music is perfect for anything and everything.

What’s your all time favorite MTV show?

I’ve followed the teen moms ever since they were 16 and pregnant. But Jerzday is also one of my favorite days of the week.

What inspired you to be a GYT ambassador?

I wanted to get involved with a campaign that was meaningful to me. I realized how little I knew about the health services that our university provides and wanted to help spread awareness on campus about having a healthy sex life. I’m excited about all the possibilities of promoting the message to students and collaborating with other organizations to promote GYT. People can get involved by simply educating themselves about GYT and passing on their knowledge.

 

 Interview: GYT Campus Ambassador Cassandra 

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Check out what GYT Campus Ambassador Cassandra is doing to bring GYT to her campus at the University of Alabama… just another example of the awesome individuals who are putting their passion into action. Be a part of it! Apply to be a GYT Campus Ambassador here.

Welcome, Cassandra! Tell us a little about yourself.

My name is Cassandra and I am 20 years old. I am an undergraduate student at the University of Alabama and an International Studies and Journalism major. I speak multiple languages and I write poetry.  I like to write poetry, read, volunteer at the local clinics, archery, and hang out with my friends. I also tutor English as a second language at the University.

Give us the inside scoop on all your entertainment favorites: music, TV…

The most played song currently on my iPod is “The Words I Never Said” by Lupe Fiasco. I really like this song because it talks about important issues.

It is so hard to choose my favorite TV show on MTV. I really like the show Teen Mom. I have been watching that show since the beginning. Recently I have become attached to the shows Teen Wolf and Awkward.

Why did you choose to be part of GYT?

My inspiration to become a GYT ambassador came from my friends. Most of my friends now have kids or are sexually active. I have been working to become part of a hospital project in Nairobi in Africa to help get the AIDS count down. I live GYT by helping at my local clinic, and I am working on my first GYT event at my university’s organization day to make GYT more visible on campus.  I have placed posters around the university bulletin board and I have seen many students checking out the posters.   I believe the best way that citizens in my community can get involved with GYT is by knowing the risk of not being tested and seeing the stats of what can occur.

Feeling inspired?   Be bold and be yourself—get involved with GYT by applying to become a GYT Campus Ambassador!

 Interview: GYT Campus Ambassador Hayden 

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Between triple majoring, working at a theme park, and playing the guitar and piano, Campus Ambassador Hayden makes time in a busy schedule to rock the GYT lifestyle. Inspired by Hayden spreading the word about GYT at the College of Central Florida? Become a Campus Ambassador yourself!

Hi Hayden! Tell us a little about yourself.

Hey there, I’m Hayden Seth Rackel, the campus ambassador for the College of Central Florida. I’m currently attempting a triple major in theatre education, English (specifically journalism), and radiologic technology. Crazy, I know. I’m a very artsy person, and a huge activist for multiple campaigns, including GYT! When I’m not at school, or out campaigning, you can find me working at one of the world’s most popular theme parks. It’s definitely not your typical day job—and that suits my quirky personality just fine.

What’s the most played song on your iPod?

According to my Zen (my equivalent of an iPod) it’s “Teenagers” by My Chemical Romance. I’m going to disagree with technology, though, because what I listen to really depends on my mood. Currently, I’m on a Bake Sale and Ellen Winter kick.

When you’re not out spreading the word about GYT, what do you like to do in your free time?

Music, music, music… and did I mention music? My guitar and piano are practically attached to me. I also love theater—acting, teching—doesn’t matter! If I could find a good place around here to go hiking, I’d definitely do that too.

What’s your all time favorite MTV show?

I am a huge MADE fan. Second to that is True Life.

What inspired you to be a GYT ambassador?

I went to a high school that was, for a long time, of the “if we don’t speak of it, it doesn’t exist” mindset. There were a lot of students contracting STDs and getting pregnant at such early ages that it really upset me that the school would not allow us (the journalism staff) to cover stories in our publications. The sex education “courses” were like a day or two long, with mostly videos and vague descriptions. Knowledge is power, and it was really upsetting that those of us trying to advocate for awareness were getting stamped out. Also, as a member of the queer community, I’ve noticed so many individuals that think they’re immune to STDs other than HIV/AIDS. That’s not true. Everyone should practice safe sex and get tested. It’s just that simple.

How do you live GYT?

I live GYT by spreading the word about getting tested—often. My friends may not be comfortable with the fact that I encourage them to get tested, but it’s in their best interest. I try to spread the word by blogging, and simply talking to people that I meet. When I attended the University of Central Florida, I worked with the student organization S.A.F.E. to let people know when free HIV testing was available on campus. I make sure people are aware of things like National HIV Testing Day/Month and AIDS Awareness Day. I’m hoping to get even more active as my ties in social circles expand.

Have you hosted any GYT events at your school or in your community? What did you do and how did it go?

The semester has not started yet for me, but I’m totally psyched to kick it off by campaigning for GYT. I already have a student organization planned, and can’t wait to get a few more people so it can become an official part of my campus. I also intend to go back to my high school to reach the kids going there, and if all goes well, I want to head to the two neighboring high schools. It will be a very busy semester for me, but I’m ready to get the word out there.

What’s been the response on your campus to GYT?

The people I’ve contacted about joining the student organization I have planned have been really supportive. I’ll have to drum up more interest, but with the response I’ve gotten so far, I don’t think that will be a problem.

How can people in your area get involved with GYT?

If they’re on my campus, join the student org! If not, they can certainly go online to sign petitions, get materials, and spread awareness. I’d encourage everyone to visit GYT’s page and get informed, then pass on what you know. Talk to friends, neighbors, co-workers—just get the word out there. For students, definitely check to see if your campus has some sort of sexual health organization so you can join and get active.

The important thing is to live the lifestyle you’re promoting. If you’re going to be a part of the campaign, you’ve got to do more than just pass out leaflets and buttons. Use yourself and your own story as an example. It will give you more credit with the people you’re trying to reach, and is just the healthier way for you to go.

Of course, the most important thing is to get out there and get tested. Do it regularly, and make sure you know which STDs you’re being tested for. Cover all of your bases, and know your status. If you’re positive, seek treatment, and tell your partners. If you’re not, continue to practice safe sex. Get tested, get tested, get tested.

 Interview: GYT Campus Ambassador Ally 

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Campus Ambassador Ally from Clark University shared with GYT why she’s passionate about sexual health, and what she’s doing to spread the word about GYT. Interested in becoming a campus ambassador yourself? Click here to learn how to get involved!

Tell us a little about yourself!

Hi! My name is Ally Boguhn, and I am a senior at Clark University in Worcester, MA where I am studying Communications and Art History. I am originally from Buffalo, NY but my father was in the military so we’ve lived just about everywhere and settled down in Maine about ten years ago. I have two cairn terriers, Piper and Baxter, and they mean the world to me.

I am the Co-President of my Vox (Voices for Planned Parenthood) chapter as well as Co-Director of Choices, a sexual education and health club. This basically means I spend most of my time advocating for sexual health and reproductive rights–something I am incredibly passionate about. I hope to be able to continue this work after college by working in advocacy.

What’s the most played song on your iPod?

The most played song on my iPod is definitely Skinny Love by Bon Iver. I can’t get enough of it!

When you’re not out spreading the word about GYT, what do you like to do in your free time?

I spend a lot of my free time during the summer working at a ropes course, which I absolutely love. It is so much fun to get paid to climb! During the school year I don’t have much time to myself because I’m so busy and active on my campus. My favorite activity is advocating for the causes I believe in, so thats what I’m always doing! I even write a sexual health and feminism themed blog,  so I guess I never really stop trying to get the word out about the things that matter to me!

What’s your all-time favorite MTV show?

My favorite MTV show has got to be 16 and Pregnant. I think it deals with a lot of really important issues and I love watching it! Television can be such a great teaching tool, and I believe this show really helps spread the word about contraception and sexual health to people who may not otherwise get that message.

What inspired you to be a GYT ambassador?

Working with my campus Choices group for the past three years has shown me how much students at my school really needs this vital information. Many people simply do not know that they should get tested, how to go about doing so, and how to protect themselves. Seeing this has inspired me to take action and make sure as many people as possible can protect themselves and have the knowledge to have the safe, happy, and pleasurable sex life they deserve!

How do you live GYT?

I live GYT by ensuring that the students on my campus have every opportunity to protect themselves and have a healthy sex life. I truly care about making this happen and do everything in my power to make it so. I blog, pass out condoms, get petitions, and rally to make sure Clark students and people all over the country will be safe and protected.

Have you hosted any GYT events at your school or in your community? What did you do and how did it go?

My campus is planning our first official GYT event this upcoming semester! This year, we will be incorporating some of the GYT material into our annual Sexfest–one of the most popular events at Clark University! I am also looking to bring STI testing to our campus for a day in the Spring in order to ensure that everyone who needs to can know their status!

How can people in your area get involved with GYT?

People in my area can get involved in GYT a number of ways. If you’re on a college campus, join your VOX chapter (or equivalent sexual health group)! These groups almost always participate in the GYT campaign. If your college doesn’t have one of these groups, start your own! It only takes one passionate person to start a great change. If you’re not on a college campus you can get involved by supporting your local testing centers like Planned Parenthood. Go to a rally, sign petitions, and call and write your state representatives to let the world know these vital services cannot be lost!

If you’re in the Worcester area, you can do your part by getting yourself tested. There is a Planned Parenthood in the city as well as several non-profits like AIDS Project Worcester that will get you tested if you need it!

Most importantly, if you believe in GYT live the part. If you’re upset about what is going on in the world, and especially in our country, you need to do something about it! Get passionate about the issues. Go out and vote, or even better, campaign for the officials that can make the changes we need. Sign petitions, pass them on, tell everyone you know what they can do to help.  Remember  that where you put your money makes a difference, so when you can shop at the places in line with your personal beliefs and who donate to the causes you care about. Give change a chance. If you don’t, who will?

 Interview: GYT Campus Ambassador Max 

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GYT talked with Campus Ambassador Max to get his perspective on living GYT.  So get inspired!  If you’re a student and want to bring GYT to your campus, check out this info about becoming a GYT Campus Ambassador.

My name’s Max Kamin-Cross and I’m a 17 year old from Pittsford, NY.   I am a diehard Red Sox fan, so of course my favorite color is red.   My favorite place in the world is Washington DC, which is also where I want to go to college.   You can follow all my crazy adventures on Twitter at @MaxKaminCross

What’s the most played song on your ipod?

“The Show Goes On” by Lupe Fiasco, but my iPod is filled with a little of everything from Drake and Eminem to some country and Taylor Swift, plus a little classical Mozart thrown in.

When you’re not out spreading the word about GYT what do you like to do in your free time?

Skiing, lots and lots of skiing.   I ski for my schools ski team and work at a ski shop so during the winter I spend my entire life on the mountain.   During the summer I spend a lot of time rock climbing.   Then all year round I work on different political and social campaigns.

What’s your all time favorite MTV show?

I’m a huge fan of The Buried Life and True Life.

What inspired you to be a GYT ambassador?

After I found out that one in two young people will have an STD by the age of 25, I knew there had to be some way I could help.

How do you live GYT?

Our school health classes are not very informative and really only cover the whole “don’t have sex” idea.   Being a GYT ambassador has helped me to be able add the real facts to the curriculum during health class.   It turned out I pretty much knew more about STD’s than our health teacher did.

How can people in your area get involved with GYT?

They can check out the website at GYTNow.org or head to our local Planned Parenthood to be tested at little or no cost.

 Teen Breakup Counselor On Breaking Up: ‘Social Networks Never A Good Idea’ 

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Breakin’ up really is hard to do these days. Not only are there so many ways to cut it all off (text, email, phone, Twitter, Facebook, umm, in-person!), but the “mutual friends” you share with a partner can make cutting the cord kinda contentious. So, how do you make a breakup healthy? Seventeen-year-old breakup counselor Nathaniel Brewer taught me a couple things about doing the deed.

“The healthiest way to break up is face-to-face…definitely,” said Nathaniel at the top of our conversation. “Bringing your personal business onto social networking sites is never a good idea because you run the risk of making your ex-partner look really, really bad.”  Ending it face-to-face is just one of the tips Brewer’s learned from Start Strong Teens, an initiative of the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation. Along with about 23 other peer leaders in Boston, the 17-year-old is on a yearlong mission to spread the word that avoiding messy breakups can be easy, especially when partners follow some simple suggestions.

Knowing when to break up is key in reducing all the drama. “There are warning signs to be aware of in relationships. Sometimes they’re not end-alls, but beware,” said Brewer. Like if your partner is obsessive and needs all of your attention all the time, or takes to emotional or physical violence, it’s probably time to get out before things get too serious.

Yesterday, Brewer and other young people from around the country participated in a virtual breakup summit, where they shared tips and discussed relationship trends in their areas. The summit is part of an ongoing national project that aims to give peers the tools they need to keep relationships (and breakups) healthy and happy. “Start Strong is the only program that I know of that teaches you about healthy relationships and breakups. And since both me and my friends are going to be in relationships at some point, it’s just such a great resource.”

 Interview: GYT Campus Ambassador Kirstie 

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GYT sat down with college student Kirstie to talk about why and how she lives GYT.   So get inspired- check out this interview with Kirstie!

Kirstie: My name is Kirstie, and I am a 21 year old senior with an Individualized Major in Visual Arts, Criminal Justice, and Psychology at Roger Williams University in Bristol, RI.   On campus, I am one of 10 Health and Wellness Educators (HAWEs). The HAWEs educate and promote how to life a healthy lifestyle for college students. We do workshops, presentations, one on one motivational interviewing, and campus wide campaigns on alcohol and other drugs, safe sex, fitness, nutrition, stress management, and other general wellness topics.

GYT: What’s the most played song on your ipod?

Kirstie: “Take it off” by Ke$ha

GYT: What is the best thing you learned from MTV’s 10 Most Outrageous Sex Myths show?

Kirstie: The best thing I learned from MTV’s 10 Most Outrageous Sex Myths show was about “double bagging”. I didn’t actually even know that people believed wearing two condoms was better than just one! It was a great thing for me to learn, because if another student came to ask me questions about double bagging, I would have had no idea what to tell them!

 

GYT: What inspired you to be a GYT ambassador?

Kirstie: I received my first condom demonstration and sex education my freshman year through a popular health group on our campus that had a huge impact on my college life, the Health and Wellness Educators (HAWEs), which I joined at the end of my freshman year and have been involved with ever since. In April 2010, I lead my school to win the GYT Campus Challenge with the help and support of other HAWEs, my supervisor, and our Health Services’ Office. I was amazed at how many students did not know that they could get tested and have it be covered under our student health insurance at school. I loved working with our Health Services’ office staff, and other Health and Wellness Educators (HAWEs) about how to spread the word to our student body.

GYT: Tell us about your school joining the GYT campaign

Kirstie:   Back in April 2010, my campus won the GYT Campus Challenge.   Our Health Services’ Office ran out of rapid HIV testing kits during that time because so many students went and got tested there! We spread the word about GYT through creative flyers designed by MTV as well as flyers we created ourselves specific for our campus, Facebook event invitations, emails from our Student Senate Office, and business card sized handouts to give to people as they walked around campus.   Since last April, GYT has been incorporated into every sex workshop we offer through our office, which are our most requested workshops.

We’ve had a great response to GYT on our campus from both the student body and our professional staff. The student body at Roger Williams University takes their health very seriously, and the number of students who went and got tested sky-rocketed after they found out the shocking statistic that 1 in 2 sexually active young people would get an STD by 25.   Our Health Services’ Office provides testing for students for little or no cost, and our student health insurance covers $100 in testing costs every academic year, so even for the testing that does cost money, students can get tested at least once a year and have it be completely covered under the student insurance.

GYT:   Sounds like your school has a lot going on, so how can students best get involved on campus?

Kirstie: First, it’s important to start with yourself. You can’t fully spread the word on GYT if you don’t know your own status. So Get Yourself Tested… then get your partner(s), family, friends, peers, etc to GYT too. You can brag about how easy it was to GYT to others so that more people will listen to you.

If you are a student at Roger Williams University, you can apply to work in the Health Education Office. We have work study positions available, as well as internships and independent studies for up to 3 credits. In these positions, you would work both directly and indirectly with the HAWEs and Director of Health Education on health topics, including safe sex and GYT!

If you are a local Rhode Island resident, you can volunteer or donate to an organization that provides testing and other services, like Planned Parenthood or AIDS Care Ocean State in Providence, RI. You can find these places, and others that are similar, by searching for a local clinic on GYTNOW.org

 

 [VIDEO] ‘Teen Mom’ Catelynn Shares Thoughts On Season 3 

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Last week, “Teen Mom” Farrah swung by Act to shed a little light about what’s on deck for Season 3, premiering tonight at 10/9c. Catelynn chimes in today with her own inside info, sharing experience, insight and a few little teasers we’re stoked to pass on to you. Check out the video below to see what she had to say–including updates on baby Carly and Tyler, and a few hints about Season 3 drama. Sounds like family relations might be put to the test this time around…[high-pitched] Draaaama!!!

It probably comes as no surprise that Catelynn echoes  Farrah’s sentiments on birth control almost to a T, urging us all to get informed and use protection. There’s not a drop of preachiness to either of their messages. In fact, both moms relate to common concerns, misconceptions and fears. They understand that women of any age should find what works for their bodies, since no two methods are alike, and that no one ought to suffer through a mismatch in order to be safe.

Their advice: Find out exactly how birth control pills work. It’s your body, after all, and you have every right to be informed.  Do estrogen and progestin levels make sense to you? If not, ask your doctor (who, don’t forget, has heard it all before). Ask about IUDs or implants or diaphragms or the patch or whatever-you’ve-heard-about-but-don’t-really-know-about. It’s Your (Sex) Life has a contraception guide to help break down the pros, cons and efficiency of different methods. It also has tips for talking to your partner and making awkward shopping trips less [high-pitched]  awwwkward!

Watch Catelynn’s video here, and tune in tonight at 10/9c for the premiere of “Teen Mom” Season 3.

Correction: a previous version of this video had misinformation about infertility. There is no confirmed evidence that birth control will cause infertility. However, Catelynn is right in saying that you should speak with a doctor and find a birth control method that is right for your body.