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 [Video] Beau Mirchoff + Molly Tarlov Chat About Their Real-Life ‘Awkward.’ Dates 

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Dating’s a breeze when you’re a celebrity, right? Not all the time! We recently sat down with “Awkward.” stars Beau Mirchoff and Molly Tarlov to chat about real-life dating disasters and deal-breakers, including an epic spaghetti sauce fail.

“I was in 9th grade, maybe 8th, and I went to my lady’s house to meet her parents for the first time,” says Beau. Uh oh. Meeting the parents is awkward enough as it is! He continues, “They cooked up some spaghetti, and I’m not the most tidiest of eaters … and I made a complete fool of myself.” As for others making fools of themselves, Beau knows that first date nerves can make people act out of character. “We’ll give ‘em a second date,” he says, “but after that, dishonesty’s a big deal-breaker.” Molly’s deal-breaker? Guys who don’t listen.

+ Watch Beau Mirchoff + Molly Tarlov Talk About Dating

Listening and honesty are especially important when things start to get hot ‘n’ heavy. Whether it’s the first date or your wedding night, it’s important for you and your partner know the facts and speak openly about sexual health. The longer you wait, the more awkward things can become — especially when it comes to STDs and pregnancy. Take action below if you need help having an “Awkward.” convo about sex.

 [VIDEO] Snooki Is All About DoSomething’s Pregnancy Text Campaign 

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You have one new text. Congrats! It’s your…um, baby?!

Yep, DoSomething.org is bringing back its Pregnancy Text campaign to raise awareness about teen pregnancy. The org tapped one of our favorite moms, Snooki, to promote the campaign, which aims to educate teens about the realities of being a teen parent.

Did you know that 3 in 10 American teen girls will get pregnant at least once before age 20? That means there will be almost 750,000 teen pregnancies every year, making the United States the country with the highest teen pregnancy rates in the western industrialized world. Because less than half of teen moms under 18 ever graduate from high school and fewer than 2% earn a college degree by age 30, DoSomething wants you to experience what it’s like to have a baby for a day.

Hear that? That’s your phone baby telling you it’s time for a diaper change. You can get your digital baby by texting BABY to 38383, and once your baby arrives, it’s nonstop parenting for 24 hours. You’ll learn very quickly that your baby doesn’t care much for your studies, work schedule, or social life. Sure, you won’t actually have to change your digital baby or clean up its many messes, but you’ll get a taste of what it would be like to have a baby of your own who needs you nearly every second of every day. If you’re down to take home your digital baby or send one to your friends, head over to DoSomething’s campaign site to learn more. Bonus: If you sign up 6 of your friends you’ll win a chance for a $3,000 scholarship!

Photo: One of texts you’ll receive from your “baby.” (DoSomething.org)

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Want to know what Snooki thinks about the Pregnancy Text campaign? Watch the video below to find out why she thinks the campaign is so important and why you should totally send your guy friends a digital baby.

+ Watch “Snooki On Teen Pregnancy.”

If you are planning to have sex, make sure you’re prepared to protect yourself from STDs and pregnancy. Remember, protection is only effective if you use it each and every time you have sex. You can find out all the details at It’s Your (Sex) Life or by visiting the FAQ page. If you’re looking to wait to have sex, that’s cool too. You can find tips for waiting here.

 [VIDEO] Snooki Wants You To Experience Having a Baby…Via Text Message 

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You have one new text. Congrats! It’s your … um, baby?

Yep, DoSomething.org is bringing back its Pregnancy Text campaign to raise awareness about teen pregnancy. The org tapped one of our favorite moms, Snooki, to promote the campaign, which aims to educate teens about the realities of being a teen parent.

Did you know that three in 10 American teen girls will get pregnant at least once before age 20? That means there will be almost 750,000 teen pregnancies each year, making the United States the country with the highest teen pregnancy rates in the western industrialized world. Because less than half of teen moms under 18 ever graduate from high school and fewer than 2% earn a college degree by age 30, DoSomething wants you to experience what it’s like to have a baby for a day.

Hear that? That’s your phone baby telling you it’s time for a diaper change. You can get your digital baby by texting BABY to 38383, and once your baby arrives, it’s nonstop parenting for 24 hours. You’ll learn very quickly that your baby doesn’t care much for your studies, work schedule, or social life. Sure, you won’t actually have to change your digital baby or clean up its many messes, but you’ll get a taste of what it would be like to have a baby of your own who needs you nearly every second of every day. If you’re down to take home a digital baby or send one to your friends, head over to DoSomething’s campaign site to learn more. Bonus: If you sign up 6 of your friends you’ll win a chance for a $3,000 scholarship!

Photo: One of texts you’ll receive from your “baby.” (DoSomething.org)

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Want to know what Snooki thinks about the Pregnancy Text campaign? Watch the video below to find out why she thinks the campaign is so important and why you should totally send your guy friends a digital baby.

+ Watch “Snooki On Teen Pregnancy.”

If you are planning to have sex, make sure you’re prepared to protect yourself from STDs and pregnancy. Remember, protection is only effective if you use it each and every time you have sex. You can find out all the details at It’s Your (Sex) Life or by visiting the FAQ page. If you’re planning to wait to have sex, that’s cool too. You can find tips for waiting here.

 Eve Ensler on Love, Relationships + Ending Violence Against Women 

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If you’re a fan of girl power and positivity, chances are Eve Ensler’s work is on your digital bookshelf. The feminist powerhouse is responsible for getting the likes of Jennifer Lawrence and Anne Hathaway to rise up and protest violence against women for 1 Billion Rising, and for theater kids around the world to belt out The Vagina Monologues.

We had a chance to chat with Eve Ensler as part of MTV’s Pioneer Series. Eve stopped by to talk about her new book, In the Body of the World, an intimate memoir about her life and her recently won battle with uterine cancer.

The book is the most personal work she’s ever written, and details her journey to reclaim and get back in touch with her body. She reflected on her time spent in the Congo, how inspired she was by the women there (who have survived years of civil war and violence) and her own story of survival while undergoing cancer treatment. After kicking cancer’s butt, she re-emerged with a new appreciation for life and a wisdom for how the earth and body are connected. She urged people to appreciate the love in their lives beyond their significant others. Friends and family can give you the “big love” that sweeps you off your feet.

When asked what her one wish for the world is, not surprisingly she said to end violence against women. Having visited almost 70 countries, Eve said that the sad thing everyone had in common was the oppression of women. Eve wants women around the world to be empowered to walk, talk and wear whatever they choose, and not be harassed. She stressed that this is NOT a just women’s issue though. It’s up to men to rise up and come forward in support of the women in their lives. Men have as much, or more, of a role to play in ending violence against women.

Of course, at the heart of all of this is building healthy relationships — with yourself and others. To Eve, sex education should go beyond putting the condom on a banana and delve into how we want to be touched and treated.  We need to make sure men and women clearly understand what rape is, and know that no ALWAYS means no.   And beyond that, we should talk more about the positives of sex — creating a better understanding of the meaning of consensual sex, what feels good and the importance of making sure that both people are having a positive experience.

Be sure to check out Eve’s new book, In the Body of the World. For more info on sexual health head over to IYSL.

 [Interview] New ‘Real World’ Roomie Nia Moore Opens Up About Sexual Assault 

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The latest episode of “Real World Portland” got extremely real when new cast member Nia Moore opened up about being sexually assaulted at 18-years-old.

“Two beers and I was out,” explained the college volleyball player with model good looks to her roommate Marlon. Nia woke up mid-act, after what she assumes she was drugged with began to wear off. “It was the most God awful disgusting feeling,” she said. “I just closed my eyes and thought ‘God, just let me wake up from this.’”

Two-thirds of sexual assaults are committed by someone known to the victim. Nia was on a second date. She reported the act soon afterwards — but like 97% of those who commit the assault, her offender didn’t spend a single day in jail. We recently sat down with Nia to discuss her scary experience and everything she learned from it. April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month – we applaud and thank Nia for her bravery and willingness to shed some light on the issue.

MTV ACT: First off, thanks for letting us talk to you today. We know stuff like this can be difficult to talk about.

NIA: My pleasure. Sexual assault is hard to talk about, but the only way to make it better for those who’ve experienced it, and to prevent others from experiencing the same is to talk about it.

ACT: In as much detail as you’d like, can you describe what emotions you felt about the assault?

NIA: Shock. Pain. Fear. Betrayal. Denial. Anger…and then power, because I realized I could use my negative experiences to make a positive difference in other people’s lives.

ACT: How did you cope with being sexually assaulted, and what advice do you have for those with similar experiences?

NIA: Don’t ever want to pretend it didn’t happen, because it’s going to come back to haunt you. You’re going to dream about it. It’s going to affect you socially. Deal with the matter right then and there. It’s okay to grieve, and it’s okay to talk about it. Stay around people who you know will listen to you and be there for you. And therapy works! You have to do it.

ACT: In your opinion, do you think that some people — be it peers, celebrities, or the media in general — take the concept of rape too lightly? 

NIA: Definitely. Like that whole Rick Ross lyric fiasco made me want to cry. Apology or no apology, this world has become so conditioned to think that having or rapping about sex with someone who is extremely intoxicated — either by choice or by force — is totally normal.

ACT: Why do you think some people have been conditioned to think this way?

NIA: Part of the reason why is because many people don’t know how to define sexual assault. Some people claim to have been taken advantage of, but weren’t, while many others are actually taken advantage of but don’t report it because they feel ashamed or blame themselves.

Learn what rape is and isn’t. Don’t falsely accuse someone of rape because you’re mad at them or they don’t call you back after sex. On the other hand, you should tell someone if you feel like you have been taken advantage of in any way. People think there’s only one standard of sexual assault. It doesn’t have to hurt. You don’t have to be unconscious. If someone is manipulating you into doing something you don’t want to, it’s assault!

ACT: What did you learn from your experience, and what advice do you have for young people to avoid having similar ones?

NIA: Before, I was drinking very haphazardly. I trusted everyone, partied with strangers, went to their homes, and assumed nothing bad could ever happen to me. Then it did. Don’t let something so extreme be what changes you for the better. Don’t think it can’t happen to you. A rapist doesn’t look a certain way. They don’t look like bad guys from the movies. Even when drinking around people you know, watch your cup and know your limits. And if, God forbid, you do find yourself in a situation similar to mine, tell somebody! Get help, and always remember that you are strong, you are beautiful, and life goes on.

If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, there is help. If you’re not comfortable speaking to anyone you know, RAINN’s Sexual Assault Hotline offers 24/7 confidential help at 1-800-656-HOPE. Reduce your risk of assault by staying safe, smart, and always aware of your surroundings — online and in person! For more meaningful convos (and some silly ones too), watch “The Real World” on MTV every Wednesday at 10/9c.

 [Interview] Jillian Rose Reed + Molly Tarlov: It’s Never ‘Awkward.’ to GYT 

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Life can get pretty “Awkward.” sometimes. Sexual health doesn’t have to be though, and Jillian Rose Reed and Molly Tarlov from Awkward are here to help you through those stutters, side glances, and nervous smiles. GYT and “Awkward.” have teamed up for April’s National STD Awareness Month, and we’ll be rolling out interviews with the “Awkward.” ladies each week!

This week, we asked Molly and Jillian how their characters, Sadie and Tamara, would bring up getting tested for STDs. It’s no surprise that Sadie would take control of the situation and throw all her friends in her car to drive to the clinic.  “She [Sadie] would need to see the paper that said what the results are,” Molly shares. As for Tamara, Jillian knows that if her character didn’t know her status, she would obsess about it in her head, coming up with her own crazy lingo for the diseases, until she did. “She would make up so many new words if she was in her head about this. She would just need to get it done,” Jillian says.

+ Watch How ‘Awkward.’ Would Get Tested

We also wanted to know what was up with the response to Sadie’s STD scare last year. Who could forget the episode when Sadie came to school in a turtleneck hiding a “stress zit” and later stressed that her bf, Ricky, had given her herpes? It was all a ton of drama that could have been avoided by simply talking to Ricky about it and getting tested. No need to hide behind a turtleneck. “It’s super common. 1 out of every 2 people will get an STD by the time they’re what, 25? And they just need to know that they need to get tested,” Tamara reveals.

+ Watch ‘Awkward.’ On Getting Tested

So — stress less, get tested. GYT makes it easy to know your status. Be sure to check back all month for the latest interviews with the “Awkward.” ladies!

 [Video] Jillian Rose Reed + Molly Tarlov: It’s Never ‘Awkward.’ to GYT 

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Life can get pretty “Awkward.” sometimes. Sexual health doesn’t have to be though, and Jillian Rose Reed and Molly Tarlov from Awkward are here to help you through those stutters, side glances, and nervous smiles. GYT and “Awkward.” have teamed up for April’s National STD Awareness Month, and we’ll be rolling out interviews with the “Awkward.” ladies each week!

This week, we asked Molly and Jillian how their characters, Sadie and Tamara, would bring up getting tested for STDs. It’s no surprise that Sadie would take control of the situation and throw all her friends in her car to drive to the clinic.  “She [Sadie] would need to see the paper that said what the results are,” Molly shares. As for Tamara, Jillian knows that if her character didn’t know her status, she would obsess about it in her head, coming up with her own crazy lingo for the diseases, until she did. “She would make up so many new words if she was in her head about this. She would just need to get it done,” Jillian says.

+ Watch How ‘Awkward.’ Would Get Tested

We also wanted to know what was up with the response to Sadie’s STD scare last year. Who could forget the episode when Sadie came to school in a turtleneck hiding a “stress zit” and later stressed that her bf, Ricky, had given her herpes? It was all a ton of drama that could have been avoided by simply talking to Ricky about it and getting tested. No need to hide behind a turtleneck. “It’s super common. 1 out of every 2 people will get an STD by the time they’re what, 25? And they just need to know that they need to get tested,” Tamara reveals.

+ Watch ‘Awkward.’ On Getting Tested

So — stress less, get tested. GYT makes it easy to know your status. Be sure to check back all month for the latest interviews with the “Awkward.” ladies!

 [VIDEO] Khloe Kardashian Odom Gives Us Real Talk On Her Vagina 

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Just when you thought you knew everything about the Kardashians, Khloé goes and spills the beans on the most top secret item of all: Her vagina’s got two names! While hanging out with my fave Kardashian and chatting her partnership with U By Kotex, the star told me that her vagina goes by the moniker “Puss” when it’s being nice, and “Camille” when it naughtily peeks through her clothes giving her camel toe. Oh, and in case you were wondering: CamilePuss smells like roses!

+ Watch Khloe Gives Us Real Talk On Her Vagina

The most outspoken Kardashian sister was candidly chatting about her privates with me in hopes of making young women feel more comfortable with talking (and learning) about their own bodies. As an ambassador-of-sorts for U By Kotex’s Generation Know site, Khloé-Money wants girls to learn all the facts (and fictions!) about periods, vaginas, pads vs. tampons, and more. And if you ask me, it’s a pretty awesome and comprehensive portal for young women to get their questions answered: Can bears smell menstruation? Can you catch STDs from a toilet? The answer to both questions is a resounding no!

And if you love Khloé as much as the next girl, now’s probably the time to start thinking of a pet name for your best friend. Va-Jay-Z, anyone?

 [Interview] Buckwild’s Cara Talks Bisexuality + Stereotypes That Gotta Go 

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Yesterday, you got to know the philanthropic side of Cara Parrish, and in last night’s new episode of “BUCKWILD,” you had a chance to meet her ex-girlfriend, Sevgi. Cara was kind of nervous about coming out as bisexual to her castmates — and (no pressure) the world! — but she’s been getting a really positive response.

We saw Shain go bug-eyed on the show, but to learn about other people’s reaction, we talked to Cara herself. Yeah, she was nervous, but it’s all good, especially since she’s able to use this opportunity to clear up stereotypes about bisexuality and give advice on how to deal with bullies. Let love lead the way!

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ACT: Were you nervous about coming out to your friends in Sissonville about being bisexual?

CARA: I was a little bit nervous. You never know how people are going to react. I hadn’t really talked to any of them about their opinions or feelings, if they had any thoughts about bisexuality in general. I really didn’t know how they were going to react. Like Shain — [laughing] I don’t even think he knew what to make of it. I was actually too nervous to even watch last night’s episode. I had people live Tweet me what was happening. [laughing]

ACT: What was the reaction from them? Ashley mentioned she’s bi-curious so have you talked to her about it?

CARA: Everybody was really nice to my ex-girlfriend. They were all really accepting. I think Shain was a little… it’s not that he wasn’t accepting about it. He just seemed so stunned. He told me he didn’t know any LGBT people. He’d never had a friend who was gay or bisexual. So it was a whole new world for him.

Ashley, I guess, has had some attraction in the past to women, and I know it’s something she’s said multiple times that she’s open to…that she just hasn’t had a full-on relationship with another woman. But it’s definitely something that she’s open to.

ACT: Do you have any advice for people who are bisexual but are not sure how to talk about it with their friends?

CARA: My advice is to just be completely honest, and know that there will be people who try to make you feel bad and people who will bully you and don’t understand or accept you. I had people bullying me yesterday on social media. People will say rude things to you, and you have to know that it’s completely natural for you to fall in love with someone, and it doesn’t matter what that other person’s gender is. All of that is just a social construct. Love is love, lust is lust. You should never be ashamed to be yourself, and definitely never be ashamed to fall in love with somebody.

ACT: What are some stereotypes about bisexuality you’d like to clear up?

CARA: The one that bothers me the most is when people say that girls aren’t actually bisexual. This is so ignorant! People think that girls aren’t really bisexual or lesbian, that they do it for attention. That really bothers me a lot. Obviously my relationship with my ex-girlfriend was a long relationship. It was very emotional. For somebody to try to tell me that a relationship I spent years of my life in…I did that for attention…it’s one of the worst feelings.

The only other thing I’d like to add is that there’s a really cool support group I’m a big fan of called the Trevor Project. It’s geared towards younger adults or teens that are in the LGBT community and are being bullied. It’s a support group where you can go talk to other teens that are in the same position as you. There’s even a hotline, 1-866-488-7386. If you’re being bullied and you’re to a point where you’re not sure how to deal with it, there’s a hotline you can call. I love them. I think what they’re doing is absolutely awesome.

 [Interview] Seventeen Mag Electionista On Reproductive Rights + Why You Should Vote 

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Young people and women are two big voting blocs who can sway the election, and Seventeen magazine combined them together by highlighting dedicated political young women for their 2012 Electionistas in the October issue!

We caught up with Electionista Mackenzie “Kenzie” Massey, 21, to talk about the issue she’s passionate about most, reproductive rights, and the importance of voting and standing up for what you believe in. Mackenzie talks about keeping yourself protected, why politics matter so much to her, and who would be her celeb vice presidential nominee if she ever runs for president. Get to know more about Kenzie and why she’s voting below!

ACT: Why do you feel the way you do about reproductive rights? Why does this issue matter to you?

MACKENZIE: Growing up I always had very honest parents who answered any curious question I could think of with the medically accurate explanation of how bodies worked. As a result, I learned about condoms as a contraceptive method and as prevention for the transmission of STIs. Over time, however, I began to realize that some of my friends and classmates were becoming sexually active but hadn’t learned the same information at home that I had. And they didn’t get that information at school either because of our abstinence-only-until-marriage sex education programs. One day in health class at my middle school, after discussing how “gonorrhea hurts when you pee-uh,” I asked my teacher about using condoms to prevent transmission of STIs like gonorrhea. I was immediately shut down. My teacher told me that we would not be talking about condoms at all. Frustrated and confused about why a teacher, who we were supposed to trust and confide in, would give us misleading information that put our lives in danger, I decided I had to take action.

I became a trained peer educator with Planned Parenthood of Houston and Southeast Texas (now Planned Parenthood Gulf Coast) in order to give my classmates reliable, medically accurate, confidential information. Since we weren’t receiving any information in school, for many of my peers I was the only source of information they had because their parents felt too awkward to discuss it with them.

When high school came around, sexual activity was even more common among my peers and the consequences of failed abstinence-only programs and limited access to contraception became obvious. Unintended teen pregnancy and STIs became common occurrence at my school. According to the CDC, 72.1% of high school seniors in Texas are sexually experienced compared with 63.1% of high school seniors across the country. Not only were Texas students more likely to be sexually experienced, they were also less likely to use contraception. Only 11.3% of sexually active high school students in Texas reported using birth control during their last sexual encounter compared with 18% on a national level. When it comes to condoms, only 53.8% of sexually active Texas students used a condom during their last sexual encounter compared with 60.2% of sexually active students across the country. Clearly abstinence-only programs that dominate Texas sex education classrooms are failing our young people.

I believe that young people have the right to medically accurate, comprehensive sex education that allows them to make responsible choices for their bodies and their futures when the time is right. While abstinence is the only 100% effective method of preventing pregnancy and STI transmission, abstinence is not used by 100% of young people. While our lawmakers and administrators refuse to recognize that young people can make responsible decisions about our bodies, they are putting our health at risk.

The Seventeen magazine 2012 Electionistas!

MACKENZIE: I believe that in an ideal world abortion would be safe and legal, but totally unnecessary. In this perfect world, unplanned pregnancies would be few and far between so that every child is born into a family that can support them. With responsible sex education and increased access to condoms and contraception, unplanned pregnancies and STIs would disappear. In a legal sense, it would require that all sex education materials used in a classroom be medically accurate and include information on contraception and disease prevention in addition to the importance of abstinence for young people. Moreover, a woman’s healthcare decisions (including whether to use contraception) should be made between her family and her doctor — not a legislator who has no idea what she is going through. When I hear politicians try to make oppressive rules about what I can and can’t do with my body, it is as if they are telling me that I am too stupid to think for myself and that my doctor is also too stupid to understand my healthcare needs.

ACT: What do you think young women need to know about their rights, reproductive or otherwise?

MACKENZIE: Young women need to speak up and let our voices be heard! Half this country uses birth control. Even 98% of Catholic women have used birth control at some point in their lives, and it is unacceptable for politicians to decide our healthcare decisions for us. There are many women who use birth control for non-contraceptive reasons like treating endometriosis, relieving polycystic ovarian syndrome, or even relief from abnormally painful periods. Despite the benefits of birth control and extremely common use by American women, some politicians are intent on waging a war on birth control by making it harder to access. Young women must let their representatives know that they use birth control and they won’t stand for a politician trying to control their healthcare.

ACT: What do you think it’s important to vote in the election?

MACKENZIE: I think it is important to vote in the election out of democratic principle — it’s your civic duty! Unfortunately, some people become disillusioned and think that their vote doesn’t make a difference. But young people’s votes can be influential. For example, the State Board of Education is the partisan political body that determines curriculum and textbook standards for Texas public school students, but few Texans know very much about the board or pay attention to it. I have been working with young people from colleges across the state to educate Texans about the board and register more people to vote, and we’re seeing changes. In 2010 voters elected some new board members — from both major parties — who have been working to end the “culture war” battles that have caused so many problems on things like teaching about sex education and evolution. But the only way to maintain that progress is to keep educating voters and get Texans to the polls to vote.

ACT: How do you think we can get more young people interested in voting and getting involved in politics?

MACKENZIE: I’ve always thought that once you start looking into politics, it’s hard to get out. Of course I’m a total political science nerd, so I am a little biased. What some young people don’t realize about politics is that it is what makes our life the way it is. The people that we elect make the decisions that govern our daily lives. Young people now make up a large voting group. If we would just show up to the polls, we could have an enormous impact on the politicians elected to office. Even then, once elections are finished, you can always go talk to your representatives about the issues you care about, no matter what they are. Better yet, get a group of friends together to take action on an issue that is important to you and you’ll be able to see the effects of your hard work and grassroots organizing.

ACT: If you were running for president, which celebrity would be your VP nominee and why?

MACKENZIE: Jon Stewart. I know he’s politically savvy, funny, friendly, and reliable. It also helps that he has some good common sense when it comes to the issues I care about most: reproductive rights, education, healthcare, and responsible foreign policy.

You have the power to decide the outcome of the 2012 Election. Register to vote with our super easy registration tool. So, no excuses. Vote like a champ.

 [VIDEO] How Does Dan Savage Handle His Haters? 

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Porn. Dirty crushes. Vibrators. First love. Fetishes. Cheaters. Mastrubation. It’s all in a day’s work for host of MTV’s “Savage U,” Dan Savage. Dan’s been writing a sex column, “Savage Love,” for over 20 years (yup, before some of you were even born!!), produced plays, published a book, launched the anti-bullying movement It Gets Better, has a podcast and even an iPhone app. Uh yeah, homie is busy. But with all this work and success comes critics. So I asked Dan how he handles his haters.

Well he def. doesn’t channel Maino and wave to his haters. Dan says that if receives around 5,000 emails a week for his sex column, half of those emails are filled with criticism. “2,500 of those emails are people screaming at me. They think I’m wrong, they think the advice is terrible,” he explains nonchalantly. Dan says he’s used to the criticism and actually appreciates it. Wha?! Maybe he is waving to his haters like Maino?! Watch the video below to see what Dan is talking about. He def. has an interesting perspective on the matter. And while you’re at it, check out “Savage U” airing tonight at 11/10 c.

 [VIDEO] 16 and Pregnant’s Alex Shares Advice On Having The Sex Talk With Your Boo 

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We’ve been keeping up with the girls of ’16 and Pregnant‘ all season long. Last night’s episode shared Alex’s struggle with being pregnant at 16 and having an unreliable boyfriend who would show up to doctor’s appointments under the influence of who-knows-what. Looking back, there’s one thing she’d so differently: make sure to have open communication with your partner even before you have sex.

“If you’re uncomfortable taking about sex with the person, that probably means you’re not comfortable enough to have sex with that person,” she shares in the clip below. “Your best goal would be to wait.” After finding out she was pregnant, she struggled to be on the same page as her boyfriend — and that’s when he wasn’t M.I.A. Watch what more Alex has to say about communicating with your partner below!

+ WATCH: Alex reflects on being ’16 and Pregnant.’

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