Getting tested for STDs can be one of the most important things you can do
for your health. But, unless you've asked for a sexual health checkup,
health care providers won't automatically test for STDs — YOU have to
ask.
You might feel embarrassed to bring up, but it's absolutely
essential. If you do have an STD— like chlamydia or gonorrhea, for
example — it's important to get treated as soon as possible. You and
your health care provider will decide what STD tests make the most
sense for you.
Before Your Appointment
• Think of problems or questions you have. Even if you only have one or two, it's helpful to write them down.
• When you make your appointment, tell the receptionist that you’d like to be tested for sexually transmitted infections.
The Appointment
It's
the day of your appointment. Take a deep breath! If you want, bring a
family member or friend with you. It may even be OK to bring someone
else into the room during your examination — just let the provider know
in advance that you would like to do that.
Also, tell your
provider if you want to talk in private. Ask lots of questions, be
honest, and, if you don't understand a question or answer, ask for an
explanation.
The Talk
A good sexual health exam begins
with a good sexual health history. Here are some common questions that
health care providers ask:
• How many sexual partners have you had recently?
• How many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime?
• Do you have sex with women, men, or both?
• Do you have oral sex?
• Do you have anal sex?
• Do you use condoms?
• Do you have symptoms?
• Have you have had symptoms in the past?
• Have you ever had a sexually transmitted infection?
• Have you used over-the-counter medications to treat your symptoms?
• Do your partner(s) have any STIs or symptoms of STIs?
• Do you have any drug allergies?
• When was your last period? (if you're a woman)
These
questions might seem really personal, but it's important to be honest
with your health care provider. Your provider will help you make
important decisions about what test(s) you may need.
And don’t forget! Be sure to ask about when you'll get the results.
Need
help getting the conversation started with your partner? IYSL can help with that too.
herpesfindercom posted on 06.26.09 at 01:00AM
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