You can’t assume that you–or your health care provider for that matter – would know if you had an STD as most often there are no symptoms. That’s right, you can’t tell just by “looking.” So don’t wait for your health care provider to talk to you about getting tested. Take charge and ask to be tested. GYT has some tips to help you get started…

HERE ARE SOME TIPS ON HOW TO GET YOURSELF TALKING WITH YOUR PROVIDER

Make an Appointment

Not sure where to go to find a testing center near you? Text your zip code to GYTNOW (468669) or visit GYTNOW.org.

When you make your appointment, be sure to say that you want to get tested for STDs. Ask what the cost for the tests will be and if they offer free testing or testing on a sliding scale where the cost is adjusted based on what you can afford. There are places that will offer free or low-cost testing.

Before the Appointment

> Read up. It’s always helpful to have your facts straight before you get there. GYTNOW.org has all kinds of info on STDs. Watch a video online that follows MTV VJ Carlos Santos as he gets tested so you know what to expect when you get there.
> Questions pop up at random times, so take notes! Think through any questions you might have, write them down, and bring the list with you.
> If you’ve noticed something going on “down there”, make a note of it. But even if you haven’t, tell your doctor you want to be tested. Many STDs often show no signs or symptoms at all.

Day of Your Appointment

> Show up. It really is half the battle.
> Bring along your friend, sister, or bf/gf with you if you feel nervous.
> Some doctors’ offices and clinics ask you to fill out a form about any health issues or concerns. Take advantage of this and write down any questions about STD testing.
> Don’t assume that if your provider doesn’t bring it up that you’re STD free. They don’t always do it, so you have to. The only way to know is to ask to GYT.
> If you are seeing your doctor for something else entirely, you might as well use the opportunity to check in on your sexual health too. Take the lead and bring up STD testing. You’ll thank yourself later.

Once you start the conversation, you’ll feel proud and relieved for taking charge

Just Ask

So, you have to ask. You may feel a little nervous or embarrassed to ask to be tested – that’s okay, a lot of people do. Many people find that once they’ve brought it up and gotten past those first nervous moments, they feel a lot more comfortable. Remember, STDs are very common and this is nothing new to your doctor. They do this every day. So spit it out however you can. You can say that…

>You’ve heard that people your age are supposed to be tested regularly for STDs. It is something you want to do for your health. See how easy that was? Or maybe try this:

>A friend of yours was recently tested, and you want to know if it’s something you should do as well. Done!

Just know that you are doing the right thing. Asking to be tested shows that you are taking care of your sex life. Tell a nurse or assistant, if that’s easier.. There isn’t “one test” for all STDs, so be sure to ask which STDs you should be tested for.

Be Honest

As part of your exam you might be asked what seem like a lot of very personal questions about your sex life. While often uncomfortable, this is totally normal and meant to help you stay healthy. The best way they can do that is if you answer truthfully about your sex history .

Questions Your Provider Might Ask You

> Have you ever (or are you currently) having sex?
> How many partners have you had?
> Do you have sex with women, men or both?
> Do you have oral sex?
> Do you have anal sex?
> Do you use condoms?
> Do you have symptoms – what is different from what you normally experience?
> Have you had an STD?
> Do you know if your partner(s) have any STDs or symptoms of STDs?
> When was your last period? (If you’re a woman)

Be Proactive

Since you’re already there, you might as well discuss which birth control method is best for you in addition to using condoms, which are the only protection against both STDs and pregnancy.

Before You Leave–Follow Up

When do the results come in? Be sure to ask! Don’t assume that no news is good news—remember to follow up with them for your results if you don’t hear back.

Remember that many STDs are curable, and all are treatable.

What If I Have Something?

If you do have an STD, remember that ALL STDs, including HIV, are treatable and many are curable. Talk to your health care provider about your treatment plan.
For more information about STDs and STD testing, including what you can expect and how to talk to your partner about it, go to www.GYTNOW.org.